Being invited to someone’s home for a dinner party is a small honor, and being a good and gracious guest helps ensure the experience is enjoyable for everyone—including the host. Here are 10 ways to be a model guest at a dinner party or when invited to an event at someone else’s home – and insure you’ll be invited back!   RSVP Promptly Respond as soon as you receive the invitation, and clearly communicate whether you can attend. If you have any dietary restrictions, share them early so the host can plan accordingly. Arrive Right on Time Being punctual shows respect for the effort your host put into timing the meal. Avoid arriving too early, and try not to show up more than 10–15 minutes late. Bring a Thoughtful Host Gift A small token—like wine, flowers in a vase, or artisanal treats—shows appreciation. Keep it simple and avoid bringing food that the host might feel obligated to serve unless they requested it. Offer Help, But Don’t Hover Greet your host warmly and offer to lend a hand. If they say no, respect that—they may prefer to manage things themselves. Follow their lead and avoid disrupting their flow. Engage in Warm, Light Conversation Good conversation is part of being a gracious guest. Ask questions, listen attentively, and include others in the discussion. Steer clear of polarizing topics unless you know the group well. Give Genuine Compliments Acknowledge the effort your host put into the food, ambiance, or décor. Keep compliments sincere and balanced rather than excessive. Contribute to the Overall Vibe Be adaptable and friendly. Match the energy of the gathering—calm and relaxed for a quiet dinner, more upbeat for a lively group. Participate in activities without dominating them. Practice Good Table Manners Use utensils properly, avoid reaching across others, and place your napkin on your lap. Wait for cues before starting to eat and keep your phone tucked away unless you’re snapping a quick, host-approved photo. Know When to Leave Don’t overstay, and be mindful of cues that the evening is wrapping up. Offer a small assist with clearing, but don’t force cleanup time on your host. Follow Up with a Thank-You The next day, send a short message or note expressing gratitude. This thoughtful gesture leaves a lasting impression and reinforces the warmth of the gathering. A Model Guest at a Dinner Party Being a model guest at a dinner party is less about perfection and more about showing respect, gratitude, and ease. With these simple habits, you help create a gathering that feels effortless—and ensure you’ll be warmly welcomed back.

If you celebrate Valentine’s Day, Galentine’s Day, or both, these holidays are the perfect excuses to infuse love, warmth, and celebration into your home—no matter how limited your square footage may be. With the right styling tricks, you can turn your small apartment, studio, or cozy home into a romantic escape or a fun-filled girl’s night celebration. I created this guide – from my past celebrations and a little research – that is filled with simple, affordable, and space-saving decorating ideas that deliver maximum impact without overwhelming your space. Whether you’re planning an intimate Valentine’s Day dinner for two or hosting your best friends for Galentine’s Day, these decor tips will help you create a dreamy atmosphere where love and joy take center stage. 1 Set the Mood With a Heartfelt Color Palette Before you bring in any seasonal decor, start with color. Red and pink are Valentine’s Day classics, but you can also incorporate: Blush, mauve, and wine tones for a softer look Gold or champagne metallic accents for elegance White and clear elements for a modern, airy feel One easy switch? Swap out your everyday throw pillow covers for Valentine’s-inspired colors. It’s a space-friendly decor refresh that instantly transforms your living room. You can also drape a soft pink or red throw blanket over your sofa or bed for a cozy, romantic vibe. 2 Mix Fresh Flowers With Creative Alternatives Fresh roses are timeless for romance, and being strategic where you place your roses will have a big impact. Place in areas like: A coffee table Nightstands An entryway console A bathroom vanity (yes, romance belongs there too!) Balance fresh blooms with faux flowers or: Baby’s breath for a softer look Dried florals for longer-lasting displays Floating rose petals in a bowl of water with floating candles This mix keeps things visually open and budget-friendly. 3 A Romantic Tablescape That Doesn’t Take Up Extra Space Turn even the smallest dining nook or coffee table into a romantic centerpiece of your celebration. Try these ideas: A crisp red tablecloth or a blush-pink table runner White plates layered on gold chargers for contrast Cloth napkins tied with a single rose or heart charm Roses in a vase with rose petals scattered down the center for a whimsical finish For tiny tables, go vertical: Tall candleholders Slim flower vases Tiered trays for desserts Vertical styling saves space but still feels luxurious. 4 Create a Love-Themed Bar or Beverage Station Whether it’s cocktails, mocktails, or a hot cocoa bar—turn a small console, tray, or bar cart into a themed drink station. Add: Heart-shaped stir sticks Pink-rimmed glasses A vase with a single rose A mini letter board with a fun message If it’s Galentine’s Day, think sweet: Strawberry margaritas, rosé, or sparkling water with pink sugar rims. For a romantic night in: Rich hot chocolate with whipped cream, marshmallows, and chocolate-dipped spoons. 5 Dress Up Your Walls and Doors Wall decor brings seasonal energy without taking floor space—always a win for small homes. Try: Heart decals (easy to remove!) A string of tiny paper hearts or pom-poms A Valentine’s wreath on the front door or in your living area A framed romantic quote you rotate just for February You can also create a heart gallery wall using Printed photos Love notes Shared memories This doubles as meaningful art and celebration decor. 6 Add Balloon Decorations That are Inviting, Not Overwhelming Balloons can be elegant—and don’t require storage space afterward. Focus on vertical clusters or garlands placed in key locations: A balloon arch over your entryway or sofa Heart-shaped balloons tied behind chairs Mini-balloons arranged along the tablescape Stick to one color palette for a cohesive look. Metallics like rose gold and deep red add instant glam. Bonus idea for dates or parties: A “Love” or “XOXO” foil balloon banner on the wall creates a perfect photo backdrop for guests. 7 Candlelight: The Most Romantic Decor Trick Ever Soft lighting sets the tone for cozy connection. Try: Flameless candles (safe and renter-approved) Scented candles with notes like rose, vanilla, or amber Fairy lights tucked into glass jars Place them: On floating shelves Along the center of your table Around the bathtub for spa vibes Remember: warm lighting makes any space feel more intimate and special. 8 Sweet and Simple Food Displays You don’t need a big kitchen to serve festive treats. Keep portions small and stylish: Heart-shaped cookies in a whimsical container Chocolate-covered strawberries on a small platter A pink dessert tray with macarons or cupcakes Adding a mini floral arrangement beside snacks gives your display major charm with minimal effort. 9 Romance Every Room—Yes, Even the Bathroom Small touches throughout your home can create a cohesive love-day theme. Bathroom ideas: Roll white and pink towels for resort vibes Add a mini vase with a single rose Place a heart soap dish or seasonal wall art Bedroom ideas: Layer your bed with plush throws and pillows Arrange rose petals around the headboard or nightstand Hang string lights for a soft, magical glow Even if the celebration happens elsewhere—coming home to romance feels amazing. 10 Celebrate Experiences, Not Stuff Decor sets the tone—but the true romance is in what you do. Valentine’s ideas for small spaces: Cozy movie night with themed snacks A candlelit home-cooked meal Love-letter exchange at the dining nook Galentine’s ideas for small spaces: DIY spa station with face masks and nail polish At-home karaoke or dance playlist A fun card or bingo game giveaway Even in a small living room, laughter, connection, and celebration take up the most space. 11 Keep Storage Simple and Seasonal Seasonal decor shouldn’t stress your storage situation. Choose pieces that: Fold flat Are disposable or compostable (flower petals!) Can be reused for birthdays or anniversaries Double as everyday items once February ends For example: Pillow covers store flat and take up almost zero space Clear vases work year-round Fairy lights stay up through multiple seasons Smart decorating saves space—and money. Love Lives Here In Every Corner with Valentine's and Galentine's Day Decor Ideas Small homes have a unique advantage: they feel cozy and intimate naturally. With strategic pops of color, fresh flowers, soft lighting, and thoughtful seasonal touches, you can fill your home with love, romance, and celebration—without cluttering your space. Whether you’re sharing Valentine’s Day with a partner or hosting your closest friends for Galentine’s Day, these decorating ideas will help you create unforgettable moments in the comfort of your home. Because love isn’t about square footage—it’s about warmth, joy, and the memories you make inside the walls you call home. For tips on comfortably living and decorating your small home, read How to Live Comfortably in a Small Space  and Painting with a Purpose : How to Use Color Intentionally .

If you’ve ever opened your closet and thought, “There has to be a better way,”  you’re not alone. Small bedrooms often come with smaller closets, making it a challenge to keep clothes, shoes, and accessories neat, visible, and easy to access. But with the right closet organization ideas, even the tiniest space can feel functional and stylish. In this post, we’ll cover: Decluttering strategies to make the most of your space Maximizing closet space with smart storage solutions Creative ways to store shoes, bags, and accessories The best finds for closet organization Styling tips to make your closet look polished By the end, you’ll have a set of actionable strategies to transform your small bedroom closet into a space that actually works for you. 1. Start with a Declutter Before you add bins, shelves, or fancy organizers, step one is always to declutter. The less you keep in your closet, the easier it will be to manage the space. Tips for closet decluttering: Take everything out and sort by category: tops, pants, dresses, shoes, accessories. Use the “one-year rule”: if you haven’t worn it in the last year, consider donating it. Be honest about fit and condition—toss anything that’s worn out or doesn’t feel great to wear. Tip:  Keep a donation bag in your closet. Every time you try something on and realize you don’t love it, toss it in the bag immediately. Once your wardrobe is trimmed down, you’ll find organizing much easier. 2. Use Vertical Space Wisely In small closets, the floor and shelf space disappear fast. That’s why using vertical space  is key. Double Hanging Rods:  Add a second rod below your existing one to double the hanging space. Great for shorter items like shirts, skirts, and jackets. Over-the-Door Organizers:  Perfect for shoes, scarves, belts, or even small handbags. Shelf Dividers:  Keep stacks of sweaters, jeans, or bags neat and prevent them from toppling. 3. Invest in Slim Hangers and Space-Saving Hanger Connectors Thick, mismatched hangers waste valuable inches. You can gain valuable space in your closet by switching to slim hangers and adding space-saving hanger hooks to cascade your hangers. Why slim hangers and Hanger Hooks? Slim, velvet hangers have a non-slip surface that keeps clothes from falling. Slim hangers with cascading hooks allow you to maximize your vertical space by hanging multiple garments vertically. Hanger hooks add additional space to your closet by cascading the hangers you already have. Slim, Velvet, Non-Slip Suit Clothes Hangers The velvet surface and notched shoulders of these hangers prevent items from slipping, and each sturdy metal-core hanger can hold up to 10 pounds. Measuring 17.24 x 9.06 x 0.24 inches, they’re made with 84% GRS-certified recycled post-consumer polyethylene terephthalate ( PET). Available in packs of 30,50,and 100, and seven colors/styles. Clothes Hanger Connector Hooks These high-quality hanger connector hooks have smooth, burr-free edges and fit most standard hangers up to about 0.39 inches in diameter. They help save closet space by allowing you to vertically connect hangers, and their sturdy, stable design can hold heavy or bulky clothing without deforming. Each pack includes 50 connector hooks. 4. Add Modular Shelving or Cubes If your closet only has a single rod, you’re not maximizing the space. Modular shelving systems or fabric cubes add compartments for folded clothes, shoes, and accessories. Options include: Hanging fabric shelves that hook onto the rod. Cube storage units that sit on the floor. Stackable bins that can be rearranged as needed. Tip:  Use clear or labeled bins for seasonal items so you can rotate easily between summer and winter wardrobes. 10-Shelf Hanging Fabric Shelves This organizer features 10 shelves for storing shoes and accessories. It hangs easily on any closet rod. Made from durable polyester, it’s built to last. 5. Think Beyond the Closet Sometimes, the closet itself just isn’t enough—and that’s okay. Expand your storage into the bedroom itself. Ideas include: Storage Beds:  Beds with drawers or lift-up frames hide off-season clothes. Under-Bed Storage:  Slim bins or rolling containers keep shoes and sweaters dust-free. Armoires or Standing Racks:  If you have space, add a stylish clothing rack for frequently used items. IRIS USA 27 Qt. Under Bed Storage This under-bed storage container maximizes space for shoes, clothing, bedding, wrapping paper, and other seasonal items, making it ideal for tight spaces, bedrooms, and dorms. Its smooth-glide drawer provides easy access without removing a lid, while secure closures keep contents dry and dust-free. Made in the USA, the stackable, modular design lets you build a customized storage system, and its low-profile dimensions fit under most beds. Available in 2-pack and 4-pack options. 6. Organize by Category and Color A small closet feels bigger when it’s easy to find what you need. Sorting by category  (shirts, pants, dresses) and then by color makes your closet visually calming and practical. Benefits of this method: You’ll see exactly how many items you have in each category. It’s easier to get dressed quickly. Color coordination makes the space look curated instead of chaotic. 7. Use Hooks, Racks, and Hangers for Accessories Accessories often create clutter because they don’t have a “home.” Smart fixes: Hooks inside closet doors  for belts, scarves, and hats. Tie or scarf hangers  (with multiple loops) for compact storage. Bag racks  to keep purses upright and dust-free. 8. Maximize Shoe Storage Shoes take up a surprising amount of room, especially in a small bedroom closet. Options include: Over-the-door shoe organizers (great for flats and sandals). Under-bed shoe drawers. Slim shoe racks that sit on the closet floor. Clear shoe boxes or bins (stackable and dust-free). Tip:  Keep only current-season shoes in your closet. Store off-season shoes elsewhere (under bed, in bins). 3-Tier Expandable Shoe Rack This expandable 3-tier metal shoe rack stretches up to 33.8 inches, holds about 12 pairs of shoes, and assembles in under five minutes without tools. Made from durable, smooth-finished metal with a sturdy design, it adjusts to your space, supports heavier footwear, and includes handles for easy moving. Also available in 2- and 4-tiers and bronze and white. IRIS USA 20-Pack Storage Bins with Lids Made in the USA from reliable, BPA-free and acid-free materials, this storage bin offers a simple and safe organizing solution. Its clear design lets you see the contents at a glance, while the flat lid allows for easy stacking to save space. Perfect for small electronics, craft supplies, jewelry, or office items, it keeps storage accessible and functional. 9. Seasonal Rotation If your closet is truly tiny, rotating your wardrobe seasonally is a must. Pack away bulky winter coats in summer. Store swimsuits and sandals in bins during the winter. Use vacuum-sealed storage bags to save space. This keeps only what you actually wear in your closet, which makes it easier to keep organized. 10. Make It Pretty (and Functional) An organized closet can also be a beautiful part of your bedroom. Adding small styling touches can make it feel less like storage and more like part of your home. Ideas include: Matching bins or baskets. A small LED light strip for visibility. A pretty wallpaper or contact paper on the back wall. Scent sachets to keep clothes fresh. Motion-sensor LED Lights These lights offer motion-sensor activation within 120° and 10 feet, turning on automatically in low light and shutting off after 20 seconds of no motion. They also feature an always-on mode, five adjustable brightness levels, and a rechargeable 2500mAh battery that lasts up to 7–45 days in motion-sensor mode. Easy to install with built-in magnets or adhesive plates. 11. Closet Organization Systems For those ready to invest more, closet systems provide a custom feel without the custom price tag. Options include: Adjustable wire shelving systems. Modular wood-look closet systems. DIY kits that allow you to add drawers, rods, and shelves. Tip:  Even a budget-friendly system from Amazon or The Container Store can make a small closet feel 3x larger by using every inch of space. 12. Maintenance: The Key to Lasting Organization The hardest part isn’t getting organized—it’s staying organized. Build small habits to maintain your closet: Do a “mini cleanout” once a month. Follow the one-in, one-out rule: if you buy something new, remove one item. Reset your closet seasonally with a quick rotation and dusting. Final Thoughts A small bedroom closet doesn’t have to feel cramped or overwhelming. Start with decluttering, maximize your vertical space, and don’t be afraid to extend storage beyond the closet itself. Add some personality with matching bins or lighting, and keep it simple with monthly maintenance. Your closet should work for you—not against you. With these organization ideas, even the smallest bedroom closet can feel spacious, calm, and inspiring. For more tips on how to successfully organize your small space, read Clear the Clutter! 10 Storage Essentials for a More Organized Bathroom .

Parenting often feels like an endless cycle of messes that make your home look like a tornado passed through—spilled snacks, scattered toys, and piles of clothes that appear out of nowhere. Teaching kids to clean up after themselves isn’t just about maintaining order; it’s about building responsibility, independence, and respect for their environment. Yet, most children don’t instinctively pick up after themselves. Understanding why—and how to help them learn—can make all the difference. Why Kids Don’t Naturally Clean Up Before expecting children to clean up, it’s important to understand that messiness is part of normal development. A child’s brain simply isn’t wired for orderly thinking the way an adult’s is. Several key reasons explain this: 1. Limited executive function skills. The parts of the brain responsible for planning, sequencing, and organization—collectively called executive function—are still developing throughout childhood. Asking a three-year-old to “clean your room” feels as overwhelming to them as being handed a 30-step project plan might feel to you. 2. Weak sense of ownership and cause-and-effect. You may see a pile of blocks as “a mess,” but a child sees “my project.” Young kids often fail to connect their play with the resulting clutter, and they don’t yet perceive cleaning as part of the same activity. 3. Competing motivations. Children prioritize curiosity, fun, and exploration. Cleaning doesn’t offer an immediate reward, so it loses the competition for attention—especially when a favorite toy or screen is nearby. 4. Modeling gaps. Kids learn behavior through imitation. If they don’t consistently see adults or older siblings tidying up calmly and purposefully, they don’t internalize it as a normal habit. Once parents grasp these root causes, it becomes easier to replace frustration with strategy. The goal isn’t to demand instant tidiness—it’s to foster gradual competence, self-discipline, and pride of ownership. Early Childhood (Ages 2–5): Building the Foundation At this stage, cleaning up should feel like part of play, not punishment. Make it visual. Label bins with pictures—blocks, dolls, cars—to help non-readers know where things go. Use color-coded baskets or mats to simplify sorting. Turn it into a game. Time challenges (“Let’s see if we can put all the Legos away before the timer rings!”) or music cues (“When the cleanup song ends, all the toys should be in the bin!”) tap into their natural love of play and rhythm. Model and assist. Young children mimic adults. Clean up  with  them, narrating the steps: “We’re putting the books on the shelf. Now the puzzle pieces go in the box.” Over time, fade your help as they learn the routine. Keep expectations age-appropriate. A toddler can toss blocks into a bin. A preschooler can match toy types or carry clothes to the hamper. Expecting them to fold laundry or organize shelves is unrealistic and discouraging. The emphasis here is not on perfection but participation. The habit of  doing  is what matters. Middle Childhood (Ages 6–9): Building Responsibility and Routine School-age kids have improved planning ability and can understand more abstract reasoning. This is the ideal time to connect actions and consequences. Be specific about tasks. Instead of saying “clean your room,” give clear steps: “Put dirty clothes in the hamper. Put books on the shelf. Make your bed.” The more concrete the instruction, the more likely it will be done correctly. Establish consistent routines. Habits form through repetition. Create predictable cleanup times—before dinner, after homework, or before bedtime. When it’s part of the routine, there’s less debate. Offer limited choice. Provide autonomy without chaos. “Would you rather clean your desk first or your closet?” empowers them while keeping the goal intact. Celebrate effort. Positive reinforcement matters. Praise with specificity—“I love how you stacked your books so neatly!”—so they learn what behavior to repeat. Teach ownership. As their sense of self develops, so does pride. Encourage them to see their bedroom or play area as  their  space to maintain—not something done  for  them. By the end of this stage, most kids can manage small independent cleaning tasks and understand the satisfaction of seeing their space organized. Preteens (Ages 10–12): Teaching Accountability Preteens crave independence but still need structure. The challenge is balancing freedom with expectations. Connect cleaning to larger privileges. Explain that maintaining their room or chores shows readiness for greater responsibility—like extra screen time, sleepovers, or later bedtimes. This frames cleaning as part of growing up. Discuss consequences naturally. Rather than nagging, let logical outcomes happen. If laundry isn’t in the hamper, it doesn’t get washed. If toys are left out, they might get temporarily stored away. Encourage systems they design. Let them arrange their own storage solutions or cleaning approach. A preteen who decides “I’ll do a deep clean every Friday” is more likely to stick to it than one forced into your system. Model respect. Avoid shaming messy spaces. Instead, discuss how cleanliness affects mood, focus, and family harmony. Respect their privacy while keeping standards—“You don’t have to make your bed like a hotel, but dishes can’t stay in the bedroom.” This stage is about transforming cleaning from obligation into self-management. Teenagers (Ages 13–18): Preparing for Independence By adolescence, the main goal is to make cleanliness a self-motivated value rather than a parental demand. Shift from control to coaching. Micromanaging only fuels resistance. Instead, talk consequences: “You’re responsible for your laundry. If it’s not done, it’s not available for school.” Independence is the motivator here. Tie it to real-world preparation. Remind them that adulthood requires basic maintenance skills. Frame cleaning as life competency: “Keeping your room organized helps you focus; it’s practice for dorm life or your first apartment.” Negotiate standards. Agree on clear, minimal baselines if your tolerance levels differ. “No food in the room and clear floor space” might be more realistic than “It must look spotless.” Acknowledge progress quietly. Teenagers often reject overt praise. A simple “I noticed you tidied up—thanks” reinforces positive behavior without eye-rolling. Let natural consequences guide. Forgetfulness and messes become teachers when parents step back. Running out of clean clothes or losing favorite items teaches more than nagging ever could. By late adolescence, the goal is for cleaning to become habitual, linked to personal pride and comfort—not compliance. Final Thoughts Children don’t resist cleaning because they’re lazy or defiant. They resist because they’re learning priorities, self-awareness, and executive functioning skills. Cleaning up after themselves is both a developmental milestone and a learned behavior that takes patience, modeling, and consistency. Parents who approach this with empathy rather than frustration help kids internalize lifelong habits. Over time, the goal shifts from “Will they clean up?” to “They clean up because it feels right.” That’s when the messy chaos of childhood starts evolving into self-sufficient maturity—and perhaps, finally, a cleaner home. For more parental advice on how to keep your home functioning the best way for you and your kids, read Small Home, Big Fun: Creative Kids Play Space Ideas That Actually Work .

Living comfortably in a small space isn’t about squeezing your life into fewer square feet—it’s about learning how to make those square feet work for you . I know this firsthand, because my journey into small-space living wasn’t theoretical. It was lived, adjusted, and refined over time. The first small space I purchased was a 600-square-foot one-bedroom apartment, followed later by a 900-square-foot one-bedroom. Both taught me valuable lessons about comfort, storage, style, and what actually matters when space is limited. If you’re considering a smaller home because of budget, location, or lifestyle—or you’re already living in one but it doesn’t quite feel like “home” yet—here is some advice based on my experience and lessons in my small space living journey. What Is a Small Space? Before diving into how to live comfortably in one, it helps to define what a small home is. From my research and lived experience, a small living space doesn’t have one universal definition. The minimum square footage requirements for houses, apartments, and other dwellings vary by state (and by county and city in many states). That said, there are generally accepted square footage ranges used by designers, builders, and housing experts: Minimum square footage for a dwelling is generally considered around 150 square feet. A house under 400 square feet is considered a tiny  house. A house between 400 and 1,000 (many experts go up to 1,400) square feet is considered a small  house. The average size of an apartment in the U.S. is 908 square feet.* In short: Small space living is around 400–1,400 sq ft Tiny living: under 400 sq ft My experience falls squarely within the small-space category, not tiny living—but the principles of comfort, intention, and smart design apply across the board   * Rentcafe.com Market Insights, April 2025   Redefine What “Comfort” Means Comfort doesn’t come from square footage alone—it comes from how your home supports your daily life. When looking for a space, start by asking: What do I do most at home? What activities matter most to me? What frustrates me in my current space? If you love cooking, your kitchen layout matters more than having a large living room. If you work from home, a functional workspace may matter more than extra seating. For me, comfort meant a having relatively large living area with a decent amount of floor space where I could entertain, do exercises at home or just relax. Designing around my life was the foundation my comfort.   Prioritize Layout Over Size In small-space living, layout is everything. A well-designed 500-square-foot apartment can feel more comfortable than a poorly laid-out 900-square-foot one. Here are some things I’ve done and still do: Keep my walkways clear to avoid a cramped feeling I use rugs, lighting, and furniture placement to define zones For those who live in a studio, create clear areas for sleeping, relaxing, working, and dining. It will help your brain process the space as larger and more organized.   Fix Challenges in Your Small Space (if you have any) Sooner, rather than Later Nothing is going to be 100% perfect when you move into your small space. For example, you may have moved into a space knowing it has a very small kitchen, but having ideas on how to make some improvements, such as: Using vertical areas with shelves, hooks, and wall racks for utensils, spices, and pots Using a rolling cart for storage Buying an over-the-sink cutting board for temporary counter space When I moved into my 600 sq ft apartment, I quickly realized that square footage wasn’t my biggest problem—storage was. I had a living room shaped like a square box, a small hallway, a small galley kitchen, bathroom, and one bedroom. There were no closets in the living room or hallway. The only place to store anything and everything was in my small bedroom closet, which stored my clothes and shoes.  I had no place for coats, hats, suitcases, cleaning items like a vacuum cleaner, or anything else. Rather than forcing clutter into corners or living with visible mess, I made a decision that changed everything: I hired a contractor to build a long coat and storage closet near the entrance. It worked for my needs, and this single addition transformed how the space functioned. If you don’t want to (or can’t because you rent) build, there are large wardrobes available to purchase and divide the space as you see fit.   Set the Tone in Your Home with Color   Nothing sets the tone in a space quite like color. Light colors tend to make spaces feel larger, but that doesn’t mean everything has to be white. The key is balance. Try: Neutral bases with pops of color Consistent color palettes throughout the space Texture (wood, fabric, metal) to add warmth without clutter When colors flow from room to room, the space feels cohesive instead of chopped up. In my first small home, I didn’t just repaint—I used my creative juices to color wash an accent wall in my living room to add character and personality to the space. In a small space, walls matter. They take up a large portion of your visual field, and treating them as a design feature instead of an afterthought can completely change how a room feels. Paint was one of the most affordable ways I made my apartment feel more like my home . Make Smart Furniture Choices Comfortable small-space living depends heavily on smart furniture choices. Look for multi-functional pieces that serve more than one purpose. Examples include: Storage beds or beds with drawers Ottomans that open for storage Expandable dining tables Nesting tables Sofas with slim arms and raised legs For my first small apartment, I purchased a low TV stand with doors that doubled as a bookshelf.   Additionally, avoid a common mistake when choosing furniture in small spaces – ignoring scale. In small spaces, furniture that’s too large will dominate the room, no matter how stylish it is. Instead of buying what looked good in a showroom, I focused on what actually fit my space. I purchased a sofa, small than I would have liked, and it scaled perfectly to the room. It provided comfortable seating without overwhelming the layout. Scale matters.   Embrace Vertical Space When floor space is limited, go vertical. Walls are some of the most underused areas in small homes. Use vertical space by: Installing wall-mounted shelves Hanging hooks for bags, hats, or kitchen tools Using tall bookcases instead of wide ones Adding over-the-door organizers I added stackable closet organizers and hanging closet organizers to keep my items accessible while freeing up valuable floor space. Effective use of vertical storage can instantly make your home feel more open. Declutter Ruthlessly—but Thoughtfully You don’t need to be a minimalist to live comfortably in a small space, but clutter will show faster in a smaller home. Focus on: Keeping only what you use or love Giving every item a designated place Avoiding “just in case” clutter Decluttering isn’t about getting rid of everything—it’s about removing friction from your daily life. Less visual noise equals more mental calm. Maximize Natural and Artificial Light Lighting has a huge impact on how comfortable a small space feels. Dark spaces feel smaller and more closed in. Tips for better lighting: Keep windows unobstructed Use light-colored curtains or blinds Layer lighting (overhead, task, and ambient) Add mirrors to reflect light and create depth In my both of my small apartments, I hung mirrors opposite windows to reflect natural light. Even a small apartment can feel airy and inviting with the right lighting choices.   Create Storage Where You Least Expect It Hidden and unconventional storage is essential in small-space living. Look for opportunities: Under beds and sofas Inside benches or ottomans Above cabinets or door frames Inside closets with organizers The more invisible your storage is, the more peaceful your space will feel. Daily Habits That Keep a Small Space Comfortable In a small home, daily habits matter more than deep cleans or occasional organizing sprees. Two simple habits make the biggest difference for me: Keeping the floors clean and clear of “stuff” Keeping flat surfaces clutter free (such as counter tops, tables, bookshelves, etc.) When your living room, kitchen, and dining area often share the same footprint, visual clutter shows up fast. Clean floors and surfaces instantly reset the space and make it feel peaceful again.   Make It Personal—But Curated A small space should still feel like your  home. Personal touches matter, but editing is key. Choose: A few meaningful decor items Art that reflects your personality Plants for warmth and life I incorporated some art pieces from my international travels, which helped tell my personal story. Instead of filling every surface, let each piece breathe. This keeps your home visually calm and emotionally rich.   Making a Small Space Emotionally Comfortable Comfort isn’t just about organization—it’s about how a space makes you feel . Living comfortably in a small space is mindset. I made my apartment emotionally comfortable by: Displaying décor from trips abroad Choosing items that reflect my personality Using layers of lighting to set different moods Overhead lighting alone can feel harsh. Adding table lamps, floor lamps, and soft accent lighting allowed me to shift the atmosphere from functional during the day to cozy and relaxing at night.   Final Thoughts on Living Comfortably in a Small Space Living comfortably in a small space isn’t about giving things up—it’s about choosing better. When you design around your lifestyle, prioritize function, and eliminate excess, even the smallest home can feel spacious, calm, and deeply enjoyable. Small-space living proves that you don’t need more room—you just need the right  room, used well. For more tips on how to live comfortably in your small space, read Closet Organization for Small Bedrooms and Painting with a Purpose : How to Use Color Intentionally .

Yes, you can  have a stylish, clutter-free dorm that’s perfect for studying, relaxing, and hanging out. Shop these must-haves that will help you maximize your limited square footage, create a visually-appealing space, and live comfortably! Bed Bedsure Twin XL Comforter Set – 5-piece set features a pinch pleat design with a geometric pattern and is available in 32 colors and other sizes. Bedsure Throw Blanket   – Ultra-soft flannel fleece blanket in 30 colors; lightweight and perfect for layering. Twin XL Mattress Pad – Breathable, cooling topper in 6 colors and other sizes; adds comfort and support. Mattress XL Protector – Waterproof and hypoallergenic; guards against spills, dust mites, and allergens. Available in other sizes. Twin XL 4-Piece Sheet Set  – 4-piece double brushed microfiber yarn set in 45 colors and other sizes. Bed Pillow And Pillow Protector Set  – Includes 2 standard pillows and washable protectors for freshness. Backrest Reading Pillow – Shredded memory foam pillow with arms and washable cover; available in 8 colors.   Desk Area Marbrasse Desk Organizer  – Compact unit with 1 drawer, 2 shelves, 5 vertical file holders and 2 pen holders Combination Whiteboard & Corkboard  – 23" x 17" dry-erase and natural cork surfaces for notes and pins; oak finish frame. Desk or Bedside Lamp  – 3 color temperatures, USB C and A ports, AC outlet, several color options. Portable Lap Laptop Desk  – Cushioned lap desk with anti-slip strip and storage; fits up to 15.6" laptops and comes in 6 colors.   Closet/Clothing Area Door Coat Hanger  – 3-pack of double hook hangers for jackets, towels, or bags. Space-Saving Hangers – Space-saving design; available in 3 colors and 8-, 10-, 16-, and 20-packs. Portable Closet  – Portable fabric wardrobe with 4 storage shelves, 2 clothes hanging rods and 6 side pockets; available in 4 colors.    Storage (pick one or a few) Under Bed Storage  – Foldable, rectangular-shape 90L bins in 4 colors and 2-, 4-, 6-, and 8-pack options. Closet Storage Bins – Foldable, square-shape 90-liter bins in 6 colors; available in 2-, 3-, 4-, 6-, and 8-packs. Hanging Closet Storage – 3-shelf/3-drawer hanging unit; available in 3 colors and can separated for space needs. Over-the-Door Closet Storage  – 5 large pockets + side mesh pockets; holds up to 44 lbs.; available in several colors. Rolling Utility Cart – Multi-tier storage cart with handle; comes in 5 colors and up to 6 tiers. Tall 4-Tier Storage Cabinet With Wheels  – Adjustable shelves, magnetic doors with wheels; comes two sizes. Clear, Stackable Storage Bins with Lids  – Crafted in the USA, clear, stackable, BPA-free, in 6 quart (20 pack), 15 quart (4 pack), and 25 quart (4 pack).     Bathroom 6-Piece Towel Set  – 6-piece towel set, 100% cotton soft absorbent Turkish towels in 18 colors. Gorilla Grip Memory Foam Bath Rug  – Plush, quick-dry mat in 19 color options; machine washable. Mesh Shower Caddy  – Lightweight 8-pocket large caddy; available in 11 colors and a 2-pack.    Food Area Black +Decker CM618 Single Serve Coffee Maker  –  Single-serve coffeemaker brews directly into the included travel mug. Space-saving design. Wheat Straw Dinnerware Set for 4  – Made from a natural and renewable resource, is BPA free, Phthalate-free and safety tested. Microwave and dishwasher safe. Wheat Straw Coffee Cups – 2-pack microwaveable, reusable drinking mugs with spoon. Upstreman 1.7 Cu.ft. Mini Fridge with Freezer  – Requires little space and has plenty of storage room. Available in 7 colors. Upstreman 3.2 Cu.ft. Mini Fridge with Freezer  – For dorms with more space; 3.2-liter option, available in 5 colors. Farberware Countertop Microwave  – Stainless steel with 700 Watts and 0.7 Cu. Ft.; also available in black, white and larger sizes. Owala FreeSip Insulated Stainless Steel Water Bottle  – FreeSip spout and push-button lid with lock; c omes with a straw. Cabinet/Counter Organizer Shelves  – Set of 2 Kitchen Counter Shelves; available in two sizes and 14 colors. Zip Top Reusable Food Storage Bags  – Silicone food storage made in the USA; dishwasher, microwave, and freezer safe; available in 6 colors and various set/individual combinations.   Décor Over-the-Door Full Length Mirror  – A must have; additional styles are available in 17 sizes, 12 frame finishes, and several shapes. Machine Washable Shag Rug – Soft fluffy shaggy rug in 20 colors and 20 sizes. Picture Frame 10-Pack – Pack includes in 3 frame sizes, 3 colors and 3 different finishes. Other color combinations are also available. 3M Command Picture Hanging Variety Pack  – Damage-free picture and item hanging set; contains picture hangers and utility hooks. Grasscloth Peel and Stick Wallpaper /Contact Paper  – Adds color and texture; available in 9 sizes and 13 colors. Indoor/Outdoor Fairy String Lights  – Connectable string lights in 20 colors for enhanced atmosphere.   Misc. Rubbermaid Spa Works Small Trash Bin  – Compact 9-quart bin in 2 colors; available in packs of 1, 2, or 6. Laundry Backpack  – Backpack laundry bag with shoulder straps and mesh pocket. Power Strip Surge Protector – 10 ft cord in 2 colors, 8 widely AC outlets and 3 USB, can be wall mounted; also available in 5 and 15 ft length. Foldable Cordless Fan – Foldable, portable fan adjusts from 14.2" to 3.3 ft in height, with 180° vertical tilt and 60° oscillation. Portable Lock Box/Safe – Portable security case lock box safe with code is available in 3 sizes. Bissell AeroSlim Lithium Ion Cordless Handheld Vacuum  – lightweight, provides up to 12 minutes of cordless cleaning power for quick clean ups.

The holidays are a time for joy, warmth, and twinkle lights everywhere — but if you live in a small home or apartment, too many holiday decorations can quickly turn into cluttered chaos. Between storage bins, glittery ornaments, and oversized decor, it’s easy for your space to feel more cramped than cozy. The good news? You don’t need a sprawling living room or walk-in attic to deck the halls beautifully. With a few clever tricks and the right mindset, you can create a festive home that feels magical, not messy. Here’s how to make your space shine — without overcrowding it. 1. Think Mini: Scaled-Down Holiday Magic When space is limited, mini trees and compact decor are your best friends. Instead of trying to fit a seven-foot tree between your sofa and your sanity, opt for a tabletop or corner tree. Small trees can be just as festive — decorate them with lightweight ornaments, ribbon, or dried citrus slices for a cozy, organic look. You can even place tiny trees on side tables, dressers, or window sills to spread holiday cheer throughout your home. Don’t have room for a tree at all? Try a wall-mounted tree, a garland tree shape with lights, or even a few sprigs of pine in a vase. Less really can be more. 2. Decor That Does Double Duty When every inch counts, it’s smart to invest in multi-use holiday decor — items that work for the season and  beyond. Glass cylinder vases  are a perfect example. Fill them with ornaments, pinecones, or fairy lights during the holidays. Afterward, swap in flowers, shells, or candles for a year-round centerpiece. Fairy lights  can stay up all year too — drape them over a bookshelf, a mirror, or even your houseplants to add instant warmth. Decorative pillow covers  are another small-space hero. Instead of buying new pillows for every season, simply switch out the covers — festive ones for December, linen or cotton for spring. These kinds of easy-to-store, easy-to-refresh pieces keep your home feeling festive without adding clutter to your storage closet. 3. Keep Storage Simple and Smart Small-space holiday decorating is all about what happens after the season too. Choose items that store flat or nest easily, like collapsible wreaths or fabric garlands. Use under-bed bins or the top shelf of your closet for off-season decor — and don’t forget to label your storage containers. That way, next year’s decorating won’t require a full archaeological dig. If you’re tight on storage, go minimalist: a few well-placed pieces can make a bigger impact than a house full of tinsel. 4. Decorate with Light (and a Little Sparkle) Lighting makes all the difference in a small space. Fairy lights, flameless candles, and warm-toned bulbs create instant coziness and can make your space feel larger and more welcoming. Try stringing fairy lights around a window frame, weaving them through garland, or placing a small set in a glass jar for a soft glow. Even your plants can get in on the fun — a few twinkle lights draped around a leafy houseplant turn it into a festive focal point. 5. Add Festivity Through Textiles and Touches You don’t need to overhaul your decor — just swap in a few seasonal accents. A soft throw blanket in a holiday hue, cozy pillow covers, or a garland draped on your window sill can instantly make your space feel more festive. If your home leans neutral, consider adding a pop of color — deep green, burgundy, or gold. These tones add warmth without overwhelming small rooms. 6. Get Crafty If you have kids — or you’re just a kid at heart — DIY holiday crafts are a fun and budget-friendly way to decorate. Make paper snowflakes to hang in the window, evergreen needle arrangements, or a simple garland of dried orange slices and cinnamon sticks. These projects don’t just decorate your space — they create memories. Best of all, they’re temporary. When the holidays are over, you can compost, recycle, or pack them away without taking up much space. 7. Curate, Don’t Accumulate Finally, remember this: you don’t need to use everything you own. Choose your favorite pieces and let them shine. A few thoughtful touches will feel more inviting than every surface covered in sparkle. Try focusing your decor on one or two “zones” — like the living room and entryway — and keep the rest of your home light and simple. This keeps your space feeling open, airy, and balanced. The Takeaway Creating a festive home in a small space is all about intentional decorating. Choose items that bring you joy, that are easy to store, and that reflect your personality — not just what’s trending on social media. With mini trees, multi-use decor, smart storage, and warm lighting, you can transform your home into a cozy holiday retreat that feels spacious, joyful, and completely your own. After all, the magic of the season isn’t about how much you decorate — it’s about how it makes you feel. For more tips on how to enjoy the holidays, read 10 ways to be a Model Guest at a Dinner Party  and 5 Ways to Give Back During the Holidays .

The holiday season is one of the most meaningful times of the year—centered around gratitude, family, and community. While we gather in homes filled with food and laughter, it’s also the perfect moment to reflect on how we can share our blessings with others. Giving back during the holidays doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive; even small gestures of kindness can have a lasting impact. Whether you volunteer, donate, or simply lend a helping hand, here are several heartfelt ways to make this holiday season truly meaningful. 1. Volunteer Your Time at a Food Bank or Soup Kitchen One of the most direct and rewarding ways to give back is by volunteering at a local food bank or soup kitchen. During the holidays, many families rely on these organizations to put meals on the table. You can help by serving food, sorting donations, or packing meal kits for distribution. Volunteering offers a tangible way to connect with your community and see firsthand how your efforts make a difference. Many organizations experience an influx of donations from Thanksgiving through Christmas but struggle to find enough volunteers to manage the workload. Even a few hours of your time can help ensure that families enjoy a warm, nourishing meal. Bring along family members or friends—it’s a wonderful way to share the spirit of giving together. 2. Organize a Food Drive If you prefer to take a leadership role, organizing a neighborhood or workplace food drive is a powerful way to help. Start by partnering with a local food pantry or nonprofit to determine what items are most needed. Common requests include canned goods, boxed meals, and household staples like rice, beans, and peanut butter. You can make participation easy by setting up collection bins, posting donation reminders, or even creating an online wish list for people who prefer to contribute digitally. Get creative—encourage friendly competition between offices, schools, or community groups to see who can collect the most donations. By uniting your community around a shared goal, you’ll multiply your impact and help stock pantry shelves for months to come. 3. Donate Money or Goods to Charities Not everyone has extra time to volunteer, but donating money or goods can be just as impactful. Many charities run meal programs, winter coat drives, and holiday giving campaigns that depend on financial support. Even small donations can go far—especially when pooled with others. If you’re unsure where to give, look for local organizations that align with your values, such as homeless shelters, youth outreach programs, or animal rescues. You can also contribute to national efforts like Feeding America, Meals on Wheels, or the Salvation Army’s holiday drives. Donating gift cards is another thoughtful way to help individuals maintain independence while meeting their needs. 4. Participate in Community Events or Charity Runs Many towns and cities host charity walks/runs and fundraising events during the holiday season. Participating in these events is a fun, active way to support good causes while spending time with family and friends. The proceeds often go toward local food programs or social service organizations that serve vulnerable populations year-round. If you’re not a runner, you can still get involved as a volunteer, sponsor, or cheerleader. Every role contributes to the collective effort of giving back. 5. Show Kindness to Neighbors and Seniors Giving back isn’t limited to organized charity work—it can also mean showing everyday kindness to those around you. Reach out to an elderly neighbor who may live alone and offer to bring over a warm meal, help with errands, or simply share some conversation. You could also bake treats or deliver care packages to essential workers, teachers, or community members who have supported others throughout the year. Small acts of kindness have a ripple effect. When we connect with our neighbors, we strengthen the fabric of our communities and remind one another that gratitude is best expressed through action. A Season for Gratitude and Generosity The holiday season reminds us that gratitude and generosity go hand in hand. Whether you volunteer, donate, or perform small acts of kindness, giving back enriches both the giver and the receiver. As you gather with loved ones this season, take a moment to reflect on what you’re thankful for—and how you can extend that gratitude beyond your own home. This year, let’s make it about more than just food, gifts and festivities. Let’s make it a celebration of community, compassion, and connection. For more tips on ways to enjoy the holidays, read 10 ways to be a Model Guest at a Dinner Party  and 15 Ways to Have a Happy Holiday Season When You’re Alone or Not with Family .